Professionals 2 Originate

Education has got our minds stunted.To most of the younger generation world is picture in a text book,a map on a marker board, memorization and sitting in cold chairs for far too long time has got no value and explicitly we can see that there is a gap between what is taught through text books and whats going around the world so there is a absolute need for the change in the education system added ,P2O focuses on  the range of actions and mannerisms made by individuals because the society we live in is quite rotten and demanding good behavior from students is more like tall order.we make them understand that the good character is more integral to good performance as compared to IQ.Directly or indirectly, it is evident that the professionalism in us influences peoples life outcomes.We proudly say that P2O is the only association which focuses on two most important factors that are more essentially needed for the growth of INDIA.

VISION

Simple understanding contributes bigger innovation

MISSION

To inherit the Professionalism , Preach the discipline and dignity.

 The time has come to travel through passion and zeal for a voyage of knowledge and experience. Its time for a congregation to the minds alike, that flutters in confidence for the professionalism. Let the metamorphosis from a student to a professional in us begin. I always believe that "Teachers can change lives with just the right mix of chalk and challenges” , so I think this the right profession to make changes .My carrier of choice follows the clich of being born to do unspoken ideas. As I work in the background of   analyzing the special needs of individuals, I felt that their is a need of revolution in education system. Fallen ideas from mine has clutched up together and instated P2O(Professionals 2 Originate).

Nagalakshmi (a) Shruthi

       Founder of P2O       

Is poor parenting the primary cause of violent or aggressive behavior of children

How not to raise a child.. 

The other day I was watching Alice in Wonderland with my 2.5 year daughter..She got super excited to see that how Alice drank something and became tiny in that Wonderland​.With the same thoughts I slept and had a dream that instead of Alice I became the tiny girl and had to face all the challenges because of my tiny size... 

Our children they are so tiny for this big world.. Why don't we think from their vision. 

Being blessed with a child is a privilege. A privilege given to us by the almighty.. And we have to nurture that ...From a child's point of view 

How not to raise them. 

Always remember two things 

1. Don't raise your voice 

2. Don't raise your expectations 

Just be yourself 

When I say don't raise your voice is because children have never been very good at listening to their elders(No Matter what your pitch is) but they have never failed to imitate them. 

Children are great mimic, not only that they love exaggerating. Almost all the kids have tried their mother’s lipstick not only for their makeup, but their dolls and their dad's. 

And now the second NO 

Don't raise your expectations.. 

They are just joyful kids.. You don't have to make a childhood resume for them Don't compel your child to have a future you can brag about to your friends with stickers at the back of your car.Every child is unique and so are his capabilities. 

You must be thinking that if everything is a No. Then what to do..Nothing 

You can't be a good parent anyways.. Nobody has ever been.Even if you have cricket team of kids, .You may raise 10 nicely. But the 11th one will contradict your hypothesis which you were about to get patented.Children are like this only. . Unpredictable 

A successful kid can only be raised without over parenting. 

The most you can give your bundle of joy is ambience.. 

Let me ask you something 

What do you​expect when you go to a fine dining restaurant 

From the lights, flooring, cutlery, s

oft instrumental music to food.. 

A perfect fine dining experience 

And when you visit a dhaba

Loud noise, large plates, open eating place and the delicious oily spicy food. 

Here is my point. 

If you give the child the dhaba ambience you cannot expect fine dining experience.. 

Give your child the right ambience, the right space. 

Raise the child with his own intelligence 

What you have created is a body by giving your genetic material .You cannot create a life. 

One thing every parent don't want their child to be is, to be like them .If u have car..U want them to have a big one .If you are rich you want them to be even richer.And that is evolution 

If you want to produce something better than yourself, stop parenting them.. 

What they want is a good company not a boss walking around. 

Raise yourself before you raise your kids..Let free the child and let them face the challenges of life without hesitation, let them try their luck and explore the endless possibilities that will make them strong and parents proud.

Ms. Dipti

Director

Dipsha Step Ahead Teacher Training Institute 

Positive Parenting

We all start out as children learning from our parents / guardians about their way of life . Becoming a parent is something we should all take very seriously since our children learn about the world through watching our actions . A parent can affect their children in a positive or a negative way depending upon the parenting style used;the environment they choose to raise their children in and the other influences the child is allowed to be around to and learn from . Although some children no matter what type of environment they are in do the totally opposite.The goal of life for nearly everyone comes down to some positive results .This also applies to raising our children which is the most important thing we may ever do . 

What is POSITIVE PARENTING? 

Positive parenting is when you encourage good behaviour in your children by setting a clear set of rules, rewarding good behaviour,good communication and pushing healthy self-esteem within your child .This teaches them what is right from wrong without being too harsh since they do not know anything better . 

Many find it hard to remain positive with the times , though it is not about the times at all . It’s what is in front of you and what you see ? There must be some good ; focus more on that and it will take you a long way . A lot of positive parenting is not as hard as it seems . The most effective way is leading by example . A great positive mental attitude would rub off on all around you . 

When it comes to discipline you will need to look for ways that donor shed negative light on the matter at hand and the correct direction for it to occur .Everyone wants to feel like they are moving in the right direction and children doing so are likely to do their best if they know the way . With them watching carefully it is just as important to handle other matters in a similar way as they are still getting examples that they might follow. 

To sum up in order to be a happy parent we must spend more time with our children , pay more attention to their needs , give them practical knowledge, qualitative education and invest time for creating a cordial and friendly relationship with our children . A parent with positive attitude shall see many more successes and indeed a better start of life for their children. 

Smriti Madhok Rawtiya
Branch Head 
Hello Kids ‘Scholars’
Pre-School Bhopal 

Adept to Adapt:A Challenge

Personal lives change as people get older, so do jobs, careers and organizations. However, human beings, by nature, do tend to resent change and resist it strongly. The whole process can be very distressing to employees and negative emotions (or reactions) could stem out of it, this is why it is always advisable to recognize the different stages of change and anticipate its impact in order to take preventive measures. we experience restructuring, downsizing, and “up sizing” just like companies do. Our own little “organizations” grow when we have kids and get smaller when they move out. Perhaps a separation or divorce causes us to go through a restructuring.

Change blows through our lives, sometimes like a breeze, sometimes like wind and sometimes like a storm. You can bow your head to try to buck it, hoping it will blow over. You’re not certain the change in your company or your personal life is for the better. You may even experience stress and personal resistance. The point is you can rarely do anything about the change, so it will best serve you to accept it and move on, and if it’s a change in your company, perhaps even promote it. You might consider focusing on positive opportunities change can bring and look upon adapting to it as a challenge. Encourage others to pull together for a positive result. In doing so, you will have some control over it. Change will never end until you experience that final life-ending change, and even then, life will go on without us.

Of course, not all change is bad. It can be wonderfully pleasant as well. A short-term stock investment could skyrocket in value due to a buy-out announcement. Modern medicine could save the life of a loved one.

Finally, be patient with yourself and others. Adapting to change does not occur overnight let alone in an eight-hour workday. Keep a positive attitude and focus on the benefits and new opportunities change can bring. Just be sure to expect a few bumps in the road along the way. When you experience stages of resistance and uncertainty but are then able to assimilate change and finally conquer it, you will experience an enormous sense of accomplishment, and your self-esteem will be increased.

I guess we should all be envious of the chameleon. To it, change comes naturally. It needs neither training nor job aids to help it shift from brown to green and back again. We humans, on the other hand, need a little more support and guidance to make it through those uncertain times in our lives-whether it’s a change in careers, a change in our personal lives, a change in how we are to perform our jobs, a change in job positions, or a change in strategies. Whether you are responsible for changing only yourself or helping an entire organization through a major change, the good news is it will occur one day at a time.In short, we can either be victims or we can prosper. The choice is ours

Ms.Sunita Jain

Director

HelloKids

Bangalore

FINDING AND OWNING YOUR INNER VOICE

Just listen to your inner voice” or “Always follow your heart.” How many times have you heard these messages from gurus, coaches, and friends or have given this advice to others. Alas! Yet we have nurtured enough doubt in ourselves and suppressed these signals. 

At times you cannot hear that “inner voice” or have never dared to simply follow ones heart hence that relation has never been built.Yes! It’s a relation with your inner voice. 

You listen to people around you and follow the path that they show you. These are relationships you have, you trust or you look up to for guidance. But the fact is that you cannot run too far on borrowed logics or good or bad experiences of others. You can only do anything differently if you go against the current. Though your inner self might nudge you to do but logic does not permit that. However if you follow your heart results can be fantastic to fabulous. 

Trust me! there is no better way of creating a fulfilling and inspiring life than mastering the art of acknowledging your inner voice. In fact there is No other way. 

It is rightly said, “Intuition is the highest form of intelligence, transcending all individual abilities and skills.” 

Your inner voice can guide you to new levels of creativity and success. As you start acknowledging to your inner voice, your clarity and strength starts growing. However owning to your inner voice is just like learning to play cricket. You cannot really read about cricket and learn to play it. You need to play to experience it and practice to master it. 

Trust your inner voice. Be true to yourself and accept your first impulse and be bold to take any step. Be in surrender and keep asking questions to your inner self. Trusting your gut is recognising the signal that you receive and constantly acting on it. Do not let your doubts, resistance or fears take over. Be proactive and clear while expressing who you truly are.

As it is rightly said by Osho... 

"A truth cannot be read in scripture, a truth has to be lived only in the innermost temple of your being". 

Life is like a canvas. You are the painter of your life and you can create master pieces. Studies suggest that well known musicians, artist, successful businessman always listen to their inner voice, so why not you? It is a win win situation. You can become peaceful and successful and lead a balanced life. 

Mr Manoj Kumar
Principal
St Lawrence Public Sr Sec School
Dilshad Garden

PARENTING

What is Parenting?

Mountaineering the highest peak , getting enrolled in the list of book of world records ,performing high risk adventure task ,ruling over a sovereign country ,mastering the practice of taekwondo or breaking all the existing records of weight lifting.

No, parenting is none of these difficult tasks rather it’s a more challenging task put forth before the parents of current era. Current era!!! Is parenting a new term introduced in all known dictionaries of the world?? No, The term parenting became prominent in 1950’s in language used by psychologists ,sociologists ,Councillors or philosophers dealing or introducing new theories related to child development.

Keeping the little one in her womb for nine months ,carrying her bulky size, keeping a smile on her face when she could feel the turbulence going in her body is not a JACK’S JOKE.

When all this is so difficult, is parenting a more challenging task??

Perhaps the answer is in affirmative. The term parenting includes the sociology of the family, new kinship studies, social policy studies and medical anthropology that together contribute to the cognitive development of the child.

Was the concept not prevalent in earlier days or Easter years when females gave birth to five-six or more children. The children at that time were not fed properly?

They were fed but not spoon fed ;they were taught mannerism but not dictated or illustrated by their parents rather they were left independent to learn in the NATURAL ENVIRONMENT.

With rapid scientific and technological developments the child of this ROBOTIC AGE is much more smart. Born of modern mothers, they breathe less of oxygen and more of Technology . Operating the gadgets is something they learn before their birth. But with all these advancements and modernization today’s child requires much more than his ancestors. Fulfilling their materialistic demands is not sufficient . PARENTING is perhaps THE MOST DIFFICULT ART that deals with child’s physical, mental, emotional, social and psychological development.

Increase in corruption , high competitive atmosphere, blind race for success has made man crazy. He follows all evil practices, uses foul means, forgets the absurdities that hamper the morals, values and perspectives laid by our forefathers. All these affect the new generation adversely.

This tough scenario requires the Need of GOOD PARENTING. When said parenting is a most challenging art where both the parents need to put their mutual efforts to demonstrate the significant, enduring and protective influence of positive parenting practices especially in the foundation years of child's development.

In particular parent monitoring, open parent child communication, supervision and high quality of parent child relationship reduces the chances of high risk behaviour. Several recent intervention studies demonstrate immediate and long term protective effects on adolescent kid’s behaviour. Parental monitoring has a protective effect on adolescent behaviour in both ; middle class populations and poor urban environment.

The gist is modern parents of scientific,robotic advanced generation have to be on their toes all the time to understand the needs, aspirations , desires ,mentality and the turbulence going in the head and heart of their ADORABLE CHILD.

Ms Swati Malik
Exam Head
St Lawrence Public Sr Sec School
Dilshad Garden

Is poor parenting the primary cause of violent or aggressive behavior of children.

Parenting in itself is a great challenge. Parental love is beyond any measures. Every parent wants to see his child grow up into a world class citizen with all good qualities. But certainly some of the parents unknowingly distort their child’s personality. Many children have to endure abuse, neglect, and other types of bad parenting practices each day. This leads to serious emotional and behavioral problems that affect them throughout their life. Aggression is the most common problem in today’s children. 

Psychologist Diana Baumrind during 1960s, based on her research on pre-school age children proposed three parenting styles- authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive. 

Some parents don’t allow their kids to get involved in a problem; challenges and experiences rather enforce rules and command obedience. Such parents are emotionally distant from their children. Rather than teaching how to make better choices, they rather teach child to not make mistakes (invested in making their child feel sorry for their mistakes). They take little consideration of children’s feelings/ opinion. They may use punishment instead of discipline. Children who grow with such parents follow obedience most of the time, but with a price. Children who grow up under such household are at a high risk of developing self-esteem problems, have suppressed emotions which can result in repression of memories. They may become hostile and often focus most of their unconscious and conscious thoughts on aggression towards their parents rather than doing things better in future. Such children often become good liars in an effort to escape punishment from parents. 

On contrast, even the parents who are not  involved, offer little to no supervision, leaves the child unattended, often crying and Hungry, have no expectations or demands for their child’s behavior, may intentionally avoid their child, are often too overwhelmed by their own problems. Such parenting may have effects on child, they often have the fear of becoming dependent on others, and the child may have self-esteem issues and can be emotionally withdrawn. And are often found      misbehaving, they often have repressed anger. 

Dr Manoj Malik
 Principal
 St. Lawrence Public School
Dilshad Garden School.
New Delhi